
Handling Criticism: Moving Past Hurt and Toward Growth
How can we respond to criticism in ways that keep us motivated and moving forward?
How to Use This Lesson
This is a Harmony Student Wellness lesson, a week-long, music-centered social-emotional learning lesson designed to be taught across multiple sessions, culminating in an arts-based project. This lesson can be taught in isolation or as part of the larger Harmony Student Wellness program. For more support on implementation, see the Implementation Guide on the program page.
Essential Question
How can we respond to criticism in ways that keep us motivated and moving forward?
Objectives
Mastery Objective
- Students will be able to differentiate different forms of criticism and practice strategies to process complex emotions surrounding criticism.
Day 1 - Students will:
- Watch an Access clip describing how Beyoncé’s daughter Blue Ivy was motivated by criticism
- Define criticism, constructive criticism, and destructive criticism
Day 2 - Students will:
- Listen to “Garageland” by The Clash
- Identify feelings that can arise from criticism, such as hurt and rejection
- Consider how to be resilient in the face of criticism
Day 3 - Students will:
- Listen to “Porqué la envidia” by Yeison Jiménez
- Learn to recognize destructive criticism
- Consider ways to respond to destructive criticism
Day 4 - Students will:
- Listen to “Self Destruction” by Stop the Violence Movement
- Identify and consider ways to respond to constructive criticism
- Practice crafting constructive criticism
Arts-Based Activity - Students will:
- Reflect on their thoughts and feelings around criticism
- Create a neurographic art piece
Background
In this lesson, students will explore what criticism is and how people respond to it. They will identify and discuss the characteristics of two types of criticism, constructive and destructive, as well as consider the criticism’s intent, how it is communicated, how it makes people feel, and how to stay motivated after receiving criticism.
Materials
Required for all lessons:
- Student Journals
- Art Supplies
Arts-Based Activity:
- Black marker for each student
Slides
Playlists
Connected Themes
SEL Competency
SEL Subskill(s)